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ion!' Senator Miriam Defensor Santiago Published 8:30 AM, Jan 22, 2014Updated 10:27 AM, Jan 22, 2014Editor’s Note: Below is an excerpt from the keynote address that Senator Miriam Defensor Santiago delivered before the Annual Convention of the Philippine Psychiatric Association Inc at the EDSA Shangri-la Hotel on Tuesday, January 21. Originally titled "Medical Leadership," the speech tackled the pork barrel scam and what Filipinos should look for in their leaders in 2016.I will go to the part of my speech about political leadership after PDAF and DAP. I will again succeed in making myself angry.PDAF means Priority Development Assistance Fund and DAP means Disbursement Acceleration Program.Ang ibig sabihin ng pork barrel ganito. Bibigyan ang bawat kasapi ng House of Representatives at ng Senado, lahat sila kasi elected official, ng definite amount. P70 million for each representative every year, and P200 million for each senator every year.Kaya isipin mo na lang. 10% lang ng P70 million, P7 million na at 10% ng P200 million ay P20 million na. Eh ngayon 20% na ang pinaka-basic. Ibig sabihin, imbis na P7 million, P14 million kaagad ‘pag nanalo ka as congressman. Pwede mong kaltasin. Kausapin mo ang contractor. Kasi alam ng contractors iyan eh. Ibibigay mo sa kanya ang pera at proyekto pero pagkasyahin niya ang kinaltasan mo na.Iyan ang dahilan kung bakit napakahina ng mga public works projects natin kasi kinakaltasan eh. Mas malaki ang tinatanggap ng senador, mas malaki naman ang kaltas niya. Biro mo, ang 10% ng P200 million is P20 million. After that, it became 20% so it’s now P40 million every year, and that is for 6 years, times 6.Bakit ka pa magnegosyo, magdoktor, mag-abugado? Mag-member of Congress ka na lang, congressman o senador, madali. ‘Di ka pa kailangang maging marunong. Pwedeng-pwede kahit low IQ. I can testify. Kahit ano ang question mo, sasagutin ka ng, “That is a good question.” Mag-antay ka na ngayon kasi may susunod pa.Pagkatapos kung ayaw mo sa kanila, galit sila sa iyo. Tinatanong ko sila, “Bakit, may pagkukulang ba ako? Bakit ganyan kayo? May pagkukulang ba ako sa sex appeal?”The 2016 presidential elections are now within sight of the political horizon. This will explain the increasing number of self-serving press releases from those who hope to run for president or vice-president.Ngayon pa lang, nakikita mo sa mga frontpages, may mga storya na walang kahala-halaga na lumalabas tungkol sa senador na ito, sa congressman na iyan kasi umaasa ang senador na tatakbo siyang presidente o bise presidente, at ang congressman umaasa na makatakbong senador.Kaya maaga pa lang, nagpapapropaganda na sila para ‘pag nag-survey, kasama na sila. Bakit sila nasa diyaryo? Binibigyan din nila ang peryodista. Kaya sila nagkakaltas sa pork barrel, ang rason nila, “Binabalik din naming sa taumbayan.” Imagine!‘Power of righteous indignation’I dare to hope and predict that any incumbent public official who runs for national public office in 2016, will lose in the elections, if the Ombudsman charges him with plunder or malversation, in connection with the pork barrel scam, and/or in connection with what appears to be the impeachment scam.Dapat matalo sa 2016 ang mga taong kasangkot na iyan kasi ang mga kasangkot, iyan ang pinakamalaking ninakaw nila. Meron pang iba pero kaunti lang ninakaw nila. Kasi may gradations din iyan eh: small, medium, large.Charges filed in the Sandigan in connection with the PDAF and the DAP should disqualify any candidate in the view of irate voters. It is time to prove the power of righteous indignation!Palagi na lang akong pinagsasabihan, “Palagi ka na lang galit.” Aba, kung ganyan ba naman ang political environment mo, ‘di ka ba magalit?I said in public when I discovered that additional pork barrel was given to senator-judges after they voted guilty, I said I was heartbroken. But now, sa sinasabi ng dalawang senador na galit ngayon sa Malacañang, na nilatag pala talaga ang verdict na iyon, I’m not only heartbroken. I’m about to suffer a heart attack so I prepared to sue for damages in case I croak.Both in the psychiatric profession and in presidential politics, leadership is crucial, as a product of both culture and vision. A very wise man said, “Life is a consequence of all moral choices.” Every single day in our lives, we make moral choices. Shall I turn left or right? Shall I accept or decline? Shall I join or be by my lonesome self? We make all these choices every single day of our lives.So do not just accept a person who immediately rises on the horizon based on his paid advertisement on the paid media.Magkaiba iyon. Pinupuri ang sarili niya. If I had known I would become a politician on the day of my birth, I would have taken a scalpel and slashed my throat. I swear.Choose leader, not managerWe are looking for a leader to provide a blueprint for Filipinos to follow. In the 2013 book Leadership in Psychiatry, the editors emphasized that leadership can be transformational if it involves the management of change and if the leader has the skills set to influence individuals, events, and processes.Iyon ang dapat lider. Hindi status quo, things as usual. Mapayapa tayong lahat dahil walang gulo. That’s management. A leader should be willing to risk even his own life, his reputation so he can bring his people to the right direction, to a good place.Leadership requires skills that are technical, human, and conceptual. Technical skill in psychiatry requires that the leader should understand technical aspects, but should also be able to communicate to the key stakeholders. Human skills are concerned with dealing, negotiating, and working with people. Conceptual skills deal with ability to work with ideas and concepts.To find a new leader, we have to look for a person with the important attributes of leadership such as individual style and competencies; problem solving; effective communication, passion and courage.Passion, iyon ang kulang. Walang passion eh. Sige-sige lang lahat. Bakit ang mga Pilipino, ganoon?At an individual level, the candidate should possess: “general cognitive ability, crystallized cognitive ability; modification; and personality.”In both the medical and political fields, individual personal traits will allow each person to develop certain skills. As a result, voters should ensure that our next leader should be able to manage change effectively and should not insist on maintaining the status quo.For the next presidential elections, the Filipino people shall not look for a manager but should probe more deeply and look for a leader. I repeat the distinction. On the one hand, management is about coping with complexity. Its practice and procedure are in general a response to the development of large and complex organizations. On the other hand, leadership is about coping with change. While the manager identifies results, a leader sets the direction.In our modern life, Filipino children, in the attempt to find an individual identity, tend to identify external figures as role models. If their role model is a leader or a teacher, well and good. However, if the role model is a pop star, a film star, or other celebrity, the result, as we have seen in Philippine politics, is that these unqualified people assume leadership roles even if they are not true leaders.3 stages of political candidacyBetween 2014 and 2016 lie two potentially seismic political years.In my humble view, leadership requires first of all a mass base, which I define as approval by a major sector of the electorate, such as: university students; the economic lower class; the social media; or even just the regional constituency of the candidate. If there is no mass base, then there is no realistic basis for the ambition to become president or vice-president.Of course, every candidate succeeds in deluding himself that he has a mass base.Lahat sila naniniwala na popular sila. If so, he has a mental health problem.If the candidate proves to be popular in initial surveys, he or she should be able to attract contributions from the rich in society, which can go higher or lower, or even dry up, depending on the results of the periodic popular surveys.Once invested with sufficient funds, the candidate can then build his organization and take out the expensive media advertisement that make elections so noisy and clutter the airwaves.Three stages iyan. Una, kailangan mag-rate ka sa survey, may mass base ka. ‘Pag nasa surveys ka, ang negosyante sa Makati at Binondo, bibigyan ka ng contributions nila. Una, kaunti pa lang ibibigay nila. Dadagdagan nila habang tumataas ka sa surey. Let’s say there are 5 candidates, they will only give to the top two. ‘Pag tumaas ka, bibigyan ka nila. Installments ang bigay ng contributors.Ngayon, kung palagi kang nagagalit, pinapagalitan mo lahat, wala kang pag-asang makakuha ng contribution. Iyan ang problema ko.In this 3-stage cycle of political candidacy, I ask: Where is the role of leadership? Let us look for the reliable signs.I do not necessarily believe that the key qualities of successful political leaders are the necessary qualities for true and genuine leadership. But in the context of Philippine political reality, the first key quality is communication. A charismatic leader should communicate and listen with others. He should be able to convey his message in a straightforward way so that their followers will understand their roles and tasks clearly.The second key quality is problem-solving, which is also part of the role of a clinical leader. To solve a national problem, the leader should be able to correctly identify the problem and gather the right information and data.Thereafter, the leader should explore the range of alternative solutions, select the right action, implement it, evaluate the success, and communicate it effectively. Inevitably, some matters will have to be delegated, but the leader should retain authority, responsibility, and a certain degree of accountability.Police have higher standardsIn the final analysis, I humbly submit that the next president and vice-president should possess 3 non-negotiable traits: honesty, competence, and efficiency. Dapat iyon na lang hanapin natin. Huwag na tayong makinig sa propaganda nila.By honesty, I mean that this trait should not be self-proclaimed. Tingnan mo, sa lahat ng mga pulitikong narinig at nakita ninyo, may nagsabi bang kumuha sila ng pera? Wala. Lahat daw nagnakaw maliban sa kanila. Ang lakas ng loob ng mga gago.By honesty, I mean that this trait should not be self-proclaimed, particularly by rascals who try to advertise their integrity, mostly by attacking those of others. Honesty is best proved, not by self-paid propaganda in the media, but by awards from respectable awards-giving organizations.This is most notable when a Filipino, in a search covering the whole of Asia, is chosen to be the laureate of the Magsaysay Award for Government Service. Of course, as you have seen, even a laureate should expect mudslinging from political Nazis, whose manicured toes have been stepped upon.Metro Manila knows who these people are, because they are universally condemned as selfish, greedy, and mean, mean, mean. And I mean you, since you are watching me.By competence, I mean that although there is no constitutional requirement, any candidate for president or vice-president should have finished at least a college degree, and at best a graduate degree.Pwede ba. Maraming senador walang college degree, akala ninyo. ‘Di man lang nagtapos ng high school. Ang pulis, hindi pwedeng i-appoint ng pulis kung walang college degree. Pero ang senador o presidente, pwede. What is the state of our law?Premium should be placed on graduation with honors from a prestigious university. Dapat naman nag-graduate sila with honors. Bakit sila lider? Gusto nila mataas sila sa iba eh wala naman pala silang sinabi.Based on experience, I venture the observation that the best trained leaders come from law, public administration, business administration, and political science. To keep the process democratic, we should allow candidates without these degrees to compensate by attending, perhaps, a 3-month seminar at the UP National College of Public Administration.Para intindihin nila ang proseso. To be a lawmaker means to make law, listen to everybody in society and make the best law that will produce the best results for the greatest number of people. To be a lawmaker doesn’t mean that you’ll get your pork barrel and never attend session or if you attend session, member ka ng committee on silence dahil wala kang kakibo-kibo, kung minsan natutulog pa!By efficiency, I mean a person known to be hardworking. He or she should manifest a working belief in management by results. The president or vice president should stop presiding at inaugural ceremonies such as ribbon-cutting.Hay! How are we going to have good governance if you cut so many ribbons?! –Rappler.com
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Ram Rappler (@rapplerdotcom) tweeted at 6:06 PM on Thu, Apr 03, 2014: From the pen of Sen Miriam Santiago: Disqualify ‘pork’ bets in 2016 http://t.co/IeIy7E5a8z Disqualify ‘pork’ bets in 2016 'It is time to prove the power of righteous indignat Read more ...
ion!' Senator Miriam Defensor Santiago Published 8:30 AM, Jan 22, 2014Updated 10:27 AM, Jan 22, 2014Editor’s Note: Below is an excerpt from the keynote address that Senator Miriam Defensor Santiago delivered before the Annual Convention of the Philippine Psychiatric Association Inc at the EDSA Shangri-la Hotel on Tuesday, January 21. Originally titled "Medical Leadership," the speech tackled the pork barrel scam and what Filipinos should look for in their leaders in 2016.I will go to the part of my speech about political leadership after PDAF and DAP. I will again succeed in making myself angry.PDAF means Priority Development Assistance Fund and DAP means Disbursement Acceleration Program.Ang ibig sabihin ng pork barrel ganito. Bibigyan ang bawat kasapi ng House of Representatives at ng Senado, lahat sila kasi elected official, ng definite amount. P70 million for each representative every year, and P200 million for each senator every year.Kaya isipin mo na lang. 10% lang ng P70 million, P7 million na at 10% ng P200 million ay P20 million na. Eh ngayon 20% na ang pinaka-basic. Ibig sabihin, imbis na P7 million, P14 million kaagad ‘pag nanalo ka as congressman. Pwede mong kaltasin. Kausapin mo ang contractor. Kasi alam ng contractors iyan eh. Ibibigay mo sa kanya ang pera at proyekto pero pagkasyahin niya ang kinaltasan mo na.Iyan ang dahilan kung bakit napakahina ng mga public works projects natin kasi kinakaltasan eh. Mas malaki ang tinatanggap ng senador, mas malaki naman ang kaltas niya. Biro mo, ang 10% ng P200 million is P20 million. After that, it became 20% so it’s now P40 million every year, and that is for 6 years, times 6.Bakit ka pa magnegosyo, magdoktor, mag-abugado? Mag-member of Congress ka na lang, congressman o senador, madali. ‘Di ka pa kailangang maging marunong. Pwedeng-pwede kahit low IQ. I can testify. Kahit ano ang question mo, sasagutin ka ng, “That is a good question.” Mag-antay ka na ngayon kasi may susunod pa.Pagkatapos kung ayaw mo sa kanila, galit sila sa iyo. Tinatanong ko sila, “Bakit, may pagkukulang ba ako? Bakit ganyan kayo? May pagkukulang ba ako sa sex appeal?”The 2016 presidential elections are now within sight of the political horizon. This will explain the increasing number of self-serving press releases from those who hope to run for president or vice-president.Ngayon pa lang, nakikita mo sa mga frontpages, may mga storya na walang kahala-halaga na lumalabas tungkol sa senador na ito, sa congressman na iyan kasi umaasa ang senador na tatakbo siyang presidente o bise presidente, at ang congressman umaasa na makatakbong senador.Kaya maaga pa lang, nagpapapropaganda na sila para ‘pag nag-survey, kasama na sila. Bakit sila nasa diyaryo? Binibigyan din nila ang peryodista. Kaya sila nagkakaltas sa pork barrel, ang rason nila, “Binabalik din naming sa taumbayan.” Imagine!‘Power of righteous indignation’I dare to hope and predict that any incumbent public official who runs for national public office in 2016, will lose in the elections, if the Ombudsman charges him with plunder or malversation, in connection with the pork barrel scam, and/or in connection with what appears to be the impeachment scam.Dapat matalo sa 2016 ang mga taong kasangkot na iyan kasi ang mga kasangkot, iyan ang pinakamalaking ninakaw nila. Meron pang iba pero kaunti lang ninakaw nila. Kasi may gradations din iyan eh: small, medium, large.Charges filed in the Sandigan in connection with the PDAF and the DAP should disqualify any candidate in the view of irate voters. It is time to prove the power of righteous indignation!Palagi na lang akong pinagsasabihan, “Palagi ka na lang galit.” Aba, kung ganyan ba naman ang political environment mo, ‘di ka ba magalit?I said in public when I discovered that additional pork barrel was given to senator-judges after they voted guilty, I said I was heartbroken. But now, sa sinasabi ng dalawang senador na galit ngayon sa Malacañang, na nilatag pala talaga ang verdict na iyon, I’m not only heartbroken. I’m about to suffer a heart attack so I prepared to sue for damages in case I croak.Both in the psychiatric profession and in presidential politics, leadership is crucial, as a product of both culture and vision. A very wise man said, “Life is a consequence of all moral choices.” Every single day in our lives, we make moral choices. Shall I turn left or right? Shall I accept or decline? Shall I join or be by my lonesome self? We make all these choices every single day of our lives.So do not just accept a person who immediately rises on the horizon based on his paid advertisement on the paid media.Magkaiba iyon. Pinupuri ang sarili niya. If I had known I would become a politician on the day of my birth, I would have taken a scalpel and slashed my throat. I swear.Choose leader, not managerWe are looking for a leader to provide a blueprint for Filipinos to follow. In the 2013 book Leadership in Psychiatry, the editors emphasized that leadership can be transformational if it involves the management of change and if the leader has the skills set to influence individuals, events, and processes.Iyon ang dapat lider. Hindi status quo, things as usual. Mapayapa tayong lahat dahil walang gulo. That’s management. A leader should be willing to risk even his own life, his reputation so he can bring his people to the right direction, to a good place.Leadership requires skills that are technical, human, and conceptual. Technical skill in psychiatry requires that the leader should understand technical aspects, but should also be able to communicate to the key stakeholders. Human skills are concerned with dealing, negotiating, and working with people. Conceptual skills deal with ability to work with ideas and concepts.To find a new leader, we have to look for a person with the important attributes of leadership such as individual style and competencies; problem solving; effective communication, passion and courage.Passion, iyon ang kulang. Walang passion eh. Sige-sige lang lahat. Bakit ang mga Pilipino, ganoon?At an individual level, the candidate should possess: “general cognitive ability, crystallized cognitive ability; modification; and personality.”In both the medical and political fields, individual personal traits will allow each person to develop certain skills. As a result, voters should ensure that our next leader should be able to manage change effectively and should not insist on maintaining the status quo.For the next presidential elections, the Filipino people shall not look for a manager but should probe more deeply and look for a leader. I repeat the distinction. On the one hand, management is about coping with complexity. Its practice and procedure are in general a response to the development of large and complex organizations. On the other hand, leadership is about coping with change. While the manager identifies results, a leader sets the direction.In our modern life, Filipino children, in the attempt to find an individual identity, tend to identify external figures as role models. If their role model is a leader or a teacher, well and good. However, if the role model is a pop star, a film star, or other celebrity, the result, as we have seen in Philippine politics, is that these unqualified people assume leadership roles even if they are not true leaders.3 stages of political candidacyBetween 2014 and 2016 lie two potentially seismic political years.In my humble view, leadership requires first of all a mass base, which I define as approval by a major sector of the electorate, such as: university students; the economic lower class; the social media; or even just the regional constituency of the candidate. If there is no mass base, then there is no realistic basis for the ambition to become president or vice-president.Of course, every candidate succeeds in deluding himself that he has a mass base.Lahat sila naniniwala na popular sila. If so, he has a mental health problem.If the candidate proves to be popular in initial surveys, he or she should be able to attract contributions from the rich in society, which can go higher or lower, or even dry up, depending on the results of the periodic popular surveys.Once invested with sufficient funds, the candidate can then build his organization and take out the expensive media advertisement that make elections so noisy and clutter the airwaves.Three stages iyan. Una, kailangan mag-rate ka sa survey, may mass base ka. ‘Pag nasa surveys ka, ang negosyante sa Makati at Binondo, bibigyan ka ng contributions nila. Una, kaunti pa lang ibibigay nila. Dadagdagan nila habang tumataas ka sa surey. Let’s say there are 5 candidates, they will only give to the top two. ‘Pag tumaas ka, bibigyan ka nila. Installments ang bigay ng contributors.Ngayon, kung palagi kang nagagalit, pinapagalitan mo lahat, wala kang pag-asang makakuha ng contribution. Iyan ang problema ko.In this 3-stage cycle of political candidacy, I ask: Where is the role of leadership? Let us look for the reliable signs.I do not necessarily believe that the key qualities of successful political leaders are the necessary qualities for true and genuine leadership. But in the context of Philippine political reality, the first key quality is communication. A charismatic leader should communicate and listen with others. He should be able to convey his message in a straightforward way so that their followers will understand their roles and tasks clearly.The second key quality is problem-solving, which is also part of the role of a clinical leader. To solve a national problem, the leader should be able to correctly identify the problem and gather the right information and data.Thereafter, the leader should explore the range of alternative solutions, select the right action, implement it, evaluate the success, and communicate it effectively. Inevitably, some matters will have to be delegated, but the leader should retain authority, responsibility, and a certain degree of accountability.Police have higher standardsIn the final analysis, I humbly submit that the next president and vice-president should possess 3 non-negotiable traits: honesty, competence, and efficiency. Dapat iyon na lang hanapin natin. Huwag na tayong makinig sa propaganda nila.By honesty, I mean that this trait should not be self-proclaimed. Tingnan mo, sa lahat ng mga pulitikong narinig at nakita ninyo, may nagsabi bang kumuha sila ng pera? Wala. Lahat daw nagnakaw maliban sa kanila. Ang lakas ng loob ng mga gago.By honesty, I mean that this trait should not be self-proclaimed, particularly by rascals who try to advertise their integrity, mostly by attacking those of others. Honesty is best proved, not by self-paid propaganda in the media, but by awards from respectable awards-giving organizations.This is most notable when a Filipino, in a search covering the whole of Asia, is chosen to be the laureate of the Magsaysay Award for Government Service. Of course, as you have seen, even a laureate should expect mudslinging from political Nazis, whose manicured toes have been stepped upon.Metro Manila knows who these people are, because they are universally condemned as selfish, greedy, and mean, mean, mean. And I mean you, since you are watching me.By competence, I mean that although there is no constitutional requirement, any candidate for president or vice-president should have finished at least a college degree, and at best a graduate degree.Pwede ba. Maraming senador walang college degree, akala ninyo. ‘Di man lang nagtapos ng high school. Ang pulis, hindi pwedeng i-appoint ng pulis kung walang college degree. Pero ang senador o presidente, pwede. What is the state of our law?Premium should be placed on graduation with honors from a prestigious university. Dapat naman nag-graduate sila with honors. Bakit sila lider? Gusto nila mataas sila sa iba eh wala naman pala silang sinabi.Based on experience, I venture the observation that the best trained leaders come from law, public administration, business administration, and political science. To keep the process democratic, we should allow candidates without these degrees to compensate by attending, perhaps, a 3-month seminar at the UP National College of Public Administration.Para intindihin nila ang proseso. To be a lawmaker means to make law, listen to everybody in society and make the best law that will produce the best results for the greatest number of people. 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mo kung ito ay talagang totoo? Hayaan pumunta ng isang hakbang maaga; ginagawa ng paniniwala na sila ay pagpunta sa saktan makaimpluwensya mo ang sitwasyon hanggang sa katapusan ito mangyayari? Marahil hindi nila ito saktan ka. Ang iyong paniniwala na ang iba ay pagpunta sa saktan ka ay hindi kaya malakas na ito ay kinakailangan na nakakaapekto sa iba pang mga tao. Ngunit ito ay nakakaapekto sa iyong sarili. Maaaring hindi nila saktan ka sa lahat sa wakas, ngunit kakailanganin mong maging bahagi ang nasaktan ba, ikaw ay magiging emosyonal masama, kahit psychically masamang minsan. Ang mga sintomas ay magsisimulang upang ipakita ang kanilang mga sarili at hindi ka sabihin: "?. Mo ba na makita ang nararamdaman ko nasaktan ba, panatilihing ako na nagsasabi sa iyo kaya" Kaya iyong paniniwala naidulot nito sa iyo upang makakuha ng nasaktan at hindi ang iba pang mga. Ang ibang mga tao ay hindi mo. Sa mga relasyon, ay isang sandali kapag hindi mo alam kung ito ay ang kanilang mga kasalanan o sa inyo, kung ito ay ang kanilang mga responsibilidad o sa inyo, kung taong iyon ay sanhi ng pangangati sa loob mo, o kung ito ay sa iyo, kung ang taong iyon ay nagsimula ang argumento o ito ay sa iyo, kung sila nilikha ang conflict o kung ito ay sa iyo, dahil ang proyekto na namin (hagis) ang aming energies sa isa't isa. Lahat ng ito nag-mamaneho sa amin upang pagkadismaya. Ang isang pulutong ng kapangyarihan, negatibo o positibo, ay kailangan para sa isang tao upang ma-iimpluwensya ng iba sa kanilang mga malay, ito ay mas madali upang maka-impluwensya sa ating sarili. Ito ay isang pangunahing prinsipyo ng relasyon ng tao, na hindi namin maintindihan. Hindi namin maintindihan, at ang dahilan ay na hindi namin makita ang ating sarili, dahil kami ay laging naghahanap sa iba pang, paglalagay ng responsibilidad sa mga ito, bigay-sala ang mga ito, criticizing ang mga ito.  ******************************* Mensahe para sa araw Ang tunay na pagbabago ay nagdudulot ng benepisyo sa lahat.    Expression: Kapag may isa pang taong kumikilos sa isang paraan na hindi tama, ang karaniwang reaksyon ay upang magkaroon ng mga negatibong damdamin para sa taong iyon. Lahat ng mga salita at mga pagkilos batay sa ang negatibong saloobin ay natural lumikha negatibiti. Sa halip ito ay mabuti upang makita kung ano ang maaaring gawin upang makinabang ang iba pang mga tao. Ang pagtaas ng mga reklamo tumatagal lamang ang layo ng panloob na kapayapaan. Karanasan: Kapag dalhin ko ang tungkol sa isang pagbabago na-pakinabang sa kahit na ang tao na gumagawa ng pagkakamali, Ako magagawang upang manatili sa kapayapaan sa lahat ng uri ng mga tao. Hindi ako nag-aalala tungkol sa kung bakit ang isang tao ay gumagana sa isang partikular na paraan, ngunit ako ay magagawang upang makita kung ano ay upang gawin upang alisin sa partikular na negatibiti. Galit ay hindi para sa mga tao ngunit para sa negatibiti mismo.     
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Mabilis na lumipas ang nakaraang ilang buwan.   Meron na sigurong mga nagsasabi na parang kalian lang New Year. Nag-iisip pa sila ng mga resolutions. Gumagawa pa ng bucket list para sa taon. Dumaan na ang maraming planong sinimulan at binalak na Read more ...
ipagpatuloy. Hanggang sa lumipas na ang UP Fair, Valentine’s, at Student Council Elections. Umulan ng finals at kung anu-ano pang deadlines. Ngayon, patubo na ang mga sunflower sa kahabaan ng University Avenue. Nagbagsakan na ang mga bulak mula sa maraming cotton tree sa loob ng UP Campus. Ginto na ang kulay ng mga damo. Nababawasan na ang ilaw na nakabukas sa mga dormitoryo pagsapit ng gabi. Maluwag nang makaupo sa bawat biyahe ng Ikot.   Hindi ko namalayan na nagdaan na pala ang unang karto ng taon.   At marami nang nangyari. Maliban na lamang sa kumpleto at  tuloy-tuloy na tulog na umaabot ng bente-kwatro oras. Sa bawat araw ng nakaraang tatlong buwan, tila ba walang puwang ang matagal na pagtulog sa kasagsagan ng kaliwa’t kanang kaganapan – mga bagay na kailangang aralin at pag-aralan, subukin at subukan. Nariyan din ang mga taong kailangang kilalanin, kaibiganin, habang ang iba ay kinakalimutan. May mga bagong karanasang kinasanayan habang may mga lumang kinailangang kaligtaan.     Tatlong buwan na ang natapos.   Ito ang panahon kung kalian minamarkahan ang maraming pagtatapos. Kagaya nga ng sinasabi ng marami, isang pahina na naman sa kuwento ng buhay nila ang nakatakdang sarhan habang patuloy na nagbubukas ang marami pang kasunod. Asahan mo na sunud-sunod ang graduation at recognition rites. Huwag ka na ring magtaka kung kabi-kabila ang kainan, inuman, kantahan, handaan, salu-salo, reunion, kainan, at inuman. Ganyan kahilig ang Pinoy sa selebrasyon. Sa ganyang paraan tayo inaalipin at nagpapa-alipin sa kultura ng konsumerismo na talamak sa malaking bahagi ng populasyon. Minsan lang naman at sadyang espesyal ang okasyon. Kaya huwag ka na ring magtaka kung kabi-kabila ang kainan, inuman, kantahan, handaan, salu-salo, reunion, kainan, at inuman.   Bakasyon na.   Kasing init ng maalinsangang panahon ang pagnanasa ng marami na makawala (kahit pansamantala) sa routinaryong buhay ng pang-araw-araw. Kahit isang araw o isang linggo, paniguradong lulubusin upang makapagpahinga mula sa kaytagal na pagpapagal at arawang paggamit ng lakas at utak sa ngalan ng pangangailangang mabuhay. Buong taon din marahil ang ginawang paghahanda para mairaos ang mga darating na araw kasama ang mga ka-barangay, kamag-anak, kapitbahay, pamilya, kaibigan, kasintahan, at sarili.   Mayroon tayong apat na buwan.   Uunahan na kita sa pagsabing tutol ako sa pagpapalit ng academic calendar nang dahil sa maraming batayan: maling unawa sa konsepto ng internasyunalisasyon, kawalan ng masusi at siyentipikong pag-aaral, kakapusan ng demokratikong konsultasyon, hindi lapat sa lupang pagdadahilan, at marami pang iba. Pero higit sa lahat, sa isang personal na lebel, dahil hindi ako handa. Sino ba ang handa? Pati nga ang UP, parang naghihintay na lang na sumabog sa kanilang mukha ang sunud-sunod na polisiyang niragasa ang pag-abruba.  ‘Yung mga ganitong pangyayari kasi, batid mo namang darating pero kinakailangan mong tumaya na maiiwasan. Parang bagyo o anumang kalamidad na alam mong natural na kaganapan sa kalikasan subalit gagawin mo ang lahat sa abot ng iyong makakaya upang makaligtas at mabuhay. Sisikapin mong maging handa bago pa man ang pananalasa at pamiminsala dahil sino ba naman ang magnanais ng delubyo at trahedya. At ang UP, tulad ng pamahalaan, batid niya ang malaking posibilidad ng matinding pinsala. Ngunit, nakalulungkot man, ang UP, tulad ng pamahalaan, higit niyang pinipili na salubungin ang matitinding pinsala sa halip na unahin ang proseso ng pang-matagalang paghahanda. Ito yata ang sinasabi nilang trahedya ng pamamahala sa ating bansa.   Magiging mabagal ang paglipas ng susunod na apat na buwan.   Hindi pa malinaw ang plano ko. Ganun din siguro sa iyo. Simula sa unang araw ng buwan na ito, bawat minuto at bawat segundo, kailangang maging maagap sa pag-iisip sa kung ano ang maaaring mangyari sa marami pang araw na susunod. Sa napakaraming araw na susunod.   Kung tutuusin, hindi naman magbabago ang haba ng isang iglap. At mananatili ang tagal ng bawat minuto, oras, araw, at linggong lilipas. Maaring maging mabagal sa kawalan ng pakinabang at sa mainiping paghihintay kaya kailangang sunggaban ang bawat pagkakataon upang patuloy na kumilos at gumalaw.     --- PS: Sunggaban ang bawat pagkakataon upang magmahal.  
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